|Time to reboot.|
But bad times ebb and flow, come and go. Sometimes things are tough, other times things are great. Perhaps the tough times seem to happen more than the good times, but it's hard to know for sure. When you're stressed it's difficult to keep perspective.
Situations can change though, and situations change faster if you make an effort to move forward, to make progress. Who cares if you only make a little change today for the better? At least it's a step in the right direction. One small change to make life better is all you need to feel some hope. Who knows? Maybe this is the beginning of a period of incredible success. Until you get started, you'll never know.
So get focused. Don't let all the nagging stressors creep into your mind all at once. You can only do one thing at a time. Just pick something to do that would make a difference in your life and start working on it. Pick something small, manageable and doable and just get it done. No more worrying about picking the perfect thing to do, just trust your instincts and make progress. Block out all other intruding worries and attack that one thing that will make you feel the most accomplished.
Oh, and please? Give yourself a break when you're done? In order to make real, lasting progress you're going to want to stick to your goals. Most things that need to be done take some time to happen, so let's not burn out. After a full day of focused effort, you deserve to relax, rest and recover. Your brain is an organ and a day of hard work is like a mental workout: you need some recovery time to be ready for the next day.
And while we're on the topic, don't lose sight of all the good stuff you have going on. There are things that bring you joy even if they are little, simple things like McDonald's breakfast sandwiches. Look around and remind yourself about a few things that make life fun and enjoyable.
Feeling better? Good. But, don't beat yourself up about getting down in the dumps from time to time. It happens to everyone. The important thing is to keep an eye on those nasty thoughts and be sure to reboot when things get out of hand.